sessions for beginners
treatment beginnerDuring the meeting, I try to create a friendly atmosphere. You should feel good in my presence and be open to tell about yourselves and your fantasies. That's why I'm not going to build an atmosphere of fear. I care, that you gain trust to me and confidence, that I am a responsible, reasonable person, who does not to take my anger out on you or wont to hurt you. You have to treat me as a teacher, who likes and wants relay his knowledge to others.
Don't be surprised, if during session for beginners you wont be humiliated or degraded. I think that it is not necessary for learning the basic BDSM practices or learning something new about yourself. I want to help you find answers to your questions, and this is not conducive to simultaneously insult you or deride you. Time for this will come during regular sessions, if you will know this is a BDSM way want to follow.
You may also be surprised that I don't treat you as a submissive. Why I don't do that? Due to the fact that you're a beginner, you only have some hunches and insights on yourselfe. It is not said that you are submissive. It may well be that you have a predisposition to being on both sides of the whip or at all, that you feel better in the same role as mine. I don't want assign you in advance a specific role, so I'll treat you universally, because you must analyze your feelings, come to the conclusion, in which role you feel better, not because I will put you to this role.